Let Go. Return.

posted January 10, 2022
photo by Katryna Nields

From the poet Josephine Johnson:

This is the need, the deep necessity of every life;
To scatter wide seed in many fields,
But build one barn.

This is our blunder, to have built
Gilt shacks for every seed
And followed our sowing on fast, anxious feet,
Desiring to grind the firmest grain.

Let go. Let go. Return.
Heighten and straighten the barn’s first beam
Give shape and form. Discover the rat, the splintered stair.
Throw out the dry, gray corn.

Then may it be said of you:
Behold, he had done one thing well,
And he knows whereof he speaks, and he means
What he has said,
And we may trust him.

This is sufficient for a life.

I’m back from my ten-day residency at Vermont College of Fine Arts, full to the brim with excitement, inspiration and gratitude having spent so much time with my writer kinfolk. In truth, I didn’t venture far physically; I merely crossed my yard to my Little Blue studio, and when I say, “my yard,” please understand that this land is not mine except legally, which is the weakest tie. I’m living on lands once called Nonotuck or Norwottuck, belonging to the Pocumtuck, Norwottock, Woronoco, Agawam, Nipmuck, and Abenaki. I’m benefitting from centuries of systematic oppression of others. I know all this, and I also know that the feelings I’m feeling these days––hopelessness, fear, confusion, loss of a sense of self at times––are feelings others have experienced for millennia. The thick padding of my privileges has prevented me at times from an essential awareness of what matters most.

It’s a new year, and I’m wrestling with the question of what my one barn might be. I’ve always had music, I’ve always had writing, I’ve always had family. I’ve always had a cluttered barn, people. I’m learning to do less, to leave more space for the Other, for spontaneity, for stillness. I haven’t written in this space for so many months, mostly because I’m trying to finish my new novel, write songs for our next album, trying to focus on my graduate school studies, trying to care for my family, my church community at West Cummington, and I think, if I go back to my blog, I need to do it better.

I need to post more. I need to post less. I can’t put this up, because it’s terrible. I can’t put this up, because this might be publishable elsewhere.

For a brief time, when I wasn’t writing novels, I used to post every day. My usual contract with myself was to post once a month. It’s gratifying to see positive comments and affirmations of these little pieces, but I never wrote for affirmations. I wrote for connection. I wrote because when I had a knot inside me, writing about that knot was the only way I could untie it.

Yesterday, Steve preached a sermon about the attack on the Capitol on January 6 2021, and my back started to hurt. We were all together on Zoom, and I was supposed to sing my version of “America the Beautiful” after the sermon. But as he began––as he asked us, “Do you feel safer now than you did a year ago?” and the responses came in (no. No. No. No. No)–– I had to lie down on the floor and listen that way, staring up at the gaping hole in the ceiling where the fire alarm is supposed to be, where a new light fixture will one day go. “If we don’t pass the Voting Right bill, Steve was saying, there is little hope that our democracy can survive.

If our democracy can’t survive, what hope is there for the planet that my children and their children hope to inhabit?

The scripture Steve read was from Viktor Frankl and 1 Kings 19. The prophet Elijah is fed up and has gone to hide in a cave. The “still, small voice” of God came to him, asking,

“What are you doing here, Elijah?”

10 He replied, “I have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, torn down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too.”

11 The Lord said, “Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of the Lord, for the Lord is about to pass by.”

Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. 12 After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper. 13 When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave.

Then a voice said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?”

I pulled myself up off the floor and sang my lyrics to “America.”

I don’t know who you are, reading this, but you are probably my friend, or at least someone who knows me. What came to me as I listened to Steve read this passage––as I listened to the discussion around what we can possibly do, those of us who believe in science, those of us who believe in democracy, those of us who are committed to being changed, those of us who believe in love––was that I am no Elijah. But I do have a voice. It’s none of my business how large my voice is, how wide its radius. But I don’t want to hide in a cave any longer.

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  1. I love you, Nerissa. You have always moved me with your writing, with your ability to put words to that strong North Star that guides you. I’m glad to see you back here and hope I can follow your example to leave my own cave. Sending you lots of love and light and grace for yourself <3 – Tanya

  2. Beautifully written ❤️ I think it’s important to let your voice be heard, and to stand up for your beliefs, but re:how your children or the planet will survive:
    1 Corinthians 13:
    4: Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[b] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
    13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

    Oh, and’ “Tyrants always fall !” Nerissa & Katryna Nields

  3. What Trish and Tanya said! So wonderful to read your voice here again, Nerissa. And those verses speak with a voice like the wind and a shudder like the quake, and the whisper before, and the whisper after.

  4. Thank you for this, Nerissa. Your voice is important, and you say what you say from love. Certainly, there’s fear, concern, even despair at times– but always at your core there’s love. I cherish your words, the poem, and Elijah. Hugs.

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